If you do not stop these things righ away.....they could jeopardize your future in a second.
1: Trying to please everyone. You are not "party jollof rice" so you can't please or satisfy everyone. Live to please those who should be and do not bother about everyone else because the more you try, the more frustrating life seems.
2: Fear of change. "Change is the only constant in life" they say. You should losen up and be dynamic and never be stuck to your old way of doing things. It pays.
3: Living in the past. Do you find it hard to let go of the past? That's probably why you're still here. Learn to forgive yourself of your mistakes and also others because when you hold people in your heart for the wrong reasons(grudge,malice,hate,revenge,etc) you automatically limit your creative mind to devicing ways of doing wrong instead of developing a strong mind. Let go and move, there's always more in tomorrow.
4: Putting yourself down. "I am just here....there's nothing i can offer. I have no talent or skill and I am a very boring person to be with. I don't belong anywhere", a girl once said when someone asked, her what her hobbies were. The truth about us is that we never know the limits of our abilities untill we are put to the very tests that would prove expose our strength. Never say ''never"..... Believe you're amazing and put yourself to the test.
5: Overtthinking. Most of the people who do this have a universal hobby of dying young and are always bothered about something that may not even be in existence. Relax, breathe the free air by nature, do your best and leave the rest for the creator of life. Hakuna matata
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